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    Am I Invited Alone? Ask About a Plus-One in Portuguese

    An invitation arrives in a private message: “Come over on Saturday.” Does that include your partner? Before bringing someone, ask about the invitation’s scope. Time and address may already be clear while the guest list remains uncertain; those are different things to confirm.
    October 30, 2026 5 min read

    Ask who the invitation includes

    O convite é só para mim? asks whether the invitation is just for you. Só limits the people included, not the amount of time you can stay. For a couple, ask é para nós dois? These are requests for clarification. They do not add the other person to the guest list automatically.

    O convite é só para mim?
    Is the invitation just for me?

    Checks the people included.

    Você está convidando nós dois?
    Are you inviting both of us?

    Clarifies a couple’s inclusion.

    Request an additional guest

    Posso levar alguém? means “May I bring someone?” Alguém is singular here; it does not itself mean several guests. If you know whom you would like to bring, naming the person or relationship makes the request more concrete. Posso levar minha companheira? asks permission; vou levar minha companheira announces a decision already made.

    Posso levar minha companheira?
    May I bring my partner?

    Requests rather than assumes permission.

    Tem lugar para mais uma pessoa?
    Is there room for one more person?

    Asks about capacity; wait for the host’s answer.

    Keep permission separate from capacity

    Tem lugar para mais uma pessoa? asks about room for another guest. Space may be one consideration, but it is not the whole meaning of an invitation. Follow the host’s actual answer. If they say desta vez é só para você, you can acknowledge the limit without treating a question about capacity as permission.

    Desta vez, o convite é só para você.
    This time, the invitation is just for you.

    A clear limit from the host.

    Então vamos eu e a Júlia. Obrigado!
    Then Júlia and I will come. Thank you!

    Confirms the final headcount after both agree.

    Check availability after receiving permission

    The original exchange below gives permission for two people, but attendance is not confirmed yet. The learner still needs to check Júlia’s availability and reply to the host. After she agrees, a later message such as Vamos eu e a Júlia can confirm the final attendance. Permission from the host and agreement from your proposed guest are separate steps.

    Você: Posso levar a Júlia ou o convite é só para mim?
    May I bring Júlia, or is the invitation just for me?

    Anfitriã: Podem vir vocês dois.
    Both of you can come.

    Você: Vou confirmar com ela e te aviso hoje.
    I will check with her and let you know today.

    Anfitriã: Combinado.
    Agreed.

    Do not turn a warm welcome into a standing invitation

    An earlier volte sempre or apareça can express warmth without deciding who is invited to every future occasion. Ask about this event when the guest list matters. If you are the host, respond clearly with podem vir vocês dois or hoje vai ser só um grupo pequeno, according to your actual plan.

    Practice before opening the answers

    These are original written practice activities. Try a reply first, then compare the suggested answer and explanation. Other answers can work when they keep the intended meaning.

    1. Original practice: Only your name appears on an invitation. Ask whether your partner is included.
      Suggested answer and explanation

      O convite é só para mim ou para nós dois?

      The question clarifies scope without announcing an additional guest.

    2. Original practice: You want to bring one friend, Paulo. Ask specifically.
      Suggested answer and explanation

      Posso levar meu amigo Paulo?

      Naming Paulo makes the proposed guest clear. You still need the host’s answer before treating him as invited.

    3. Original practice: The host welcomes both of you, but your partner has not answered. Respond accurately.
      Suggested answer and explanation

      Obrigado! Vou confirmar com ela e te aviso.

      The host’s permission does not establish your partner’s availability or agreement.

    4. Original practice: The host says this occasion is just for you. Accept the limit.
      Suggested answer and explanation

      Entendi. Vou sozinho desta vez. Obrigado pelo convite.

      The response confirms one attendee rather than treating a capacity question as a successful request.

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